The Sick Rose

I'm gonna start by saying never again will i even think about this poem, I did not like it. From what I read this poem is about a man who does wrongs to a woman and it was not what she wanted. Crimson joy to me meant the joy the man received from violating the woman. The man was the worm and the woman was the rose, the rose becomes sick due to the worms actions to hurt it. Although I am sure the poem can have many meanings this happened to be what I got out of it and to me it is sad.